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SamG - > Oh Stewardess, I Speak Jive! -> Day Six of the Challenge
Day Six of the Challenge

DAY SIX: May 6, 2008

Breakfast: 1.25 cups of Honey Bunches of Oats w/ almonds; 1/2 cup milk; 1 small banana
Lunch: Turkey sandwich (3 slices deli meat, 1 tbsp mayo); 1/2 apple
Dinner: 1.5 cups of brown rice with steamed veggies; 1 slice of wheat (toasted)

I was able to eat a little more today than I have been, because I know that this challenge ends for me after tomorrow... obviously, families living on this budget week after week can't do that. I actually still have enough food to last about three more days, though ithe leftover items don't exactly make for the most appetizing meal combinations. I was wrong in thinking that I had enough cereal left for breakfast today and tomorrow... I finished the rest of it today (it's probably because I grabbed a few handfuls during the week for snacks) but I still have bread and two small bananas left. I'm actually starting to get used to these meals, which I admit is unexpected, but I am looking forward to being able to eat a variety of foods again. I hesitate to say that, because I don't want this to be perceived as a superficial "game" of sorts... I feel guilty about being so relieved to be able to eat what I want again after tomorrow, though I assume that would be the natural reaction for anyone. I'm literally fantasizing about what I'll be able to eat come Thursday.

Anyway, I want to switch gears a bit and mention something that I've been thinking about all week: being poor can be very isolating. We are clearly a culture that bonds over food... so how does that affect people who can't afford it? The people who can't go out to eat with friends or coworkers? Forget about relying on social networking to move up in your career. It makes for an interesting commentary about our society when we have parents going hungry so their kids can have a decent meal (let alone a birthday cake). "Social eating" has become a very common practice in our culture. I already knew that it was a very frequent activity in my life, but this week of the challenge has certainly confirmed it. A few friends and I were discussing how the rule that we're not supposed to accept free food during the challenge is one of the more unrealistic ones. If I were really on food stamps or an extremely low income, I know I'd accept all the free food I could get my hands on, especially if I had a family to think about. Then again, as a privileged "middle-class," very social young woman, I probably have access to far more free food than the average food stamp recipient. I certainly have the resources (transportation, for one) and opportunities (theatre = cast parties = food and drinks galore). I already mentioned the fact that I probably could have eaten for free this entire week due to all the social events that took place, so here are some examples:

Day 1: I attended a show at Stars Dinner Theatre, and though I did not purchase a dinner, there was still free bread, drinks, and some after-dinner candy. I had some water (tap, I'm sure) and watched everyone else eat.

Day 2: Had a performance of A Chorus Line, and there is always food backstage at the theatre. I opted out of the dinner at Chili's after the show with the rest of the cast, because (a) I was starving, and (b) I didn't feel much like watching everyone else eat food that I couldn't afford, especially since I'd only be thinking about what I could eat once I got home...

Day 3: Bakotopia party at Chuy's, which was fun (for the short time I was there), but again, I couldn't afford to order anything, though a few different people had previously (and very graciously) offered to buy me food. Had another performance of A Chorus Line, and this time I did go to an after-party, but only because it was a friend's birthday. There was a HUGE spread of amazing food, drinks, and birthday cake, and I did waver for a moment: On one hand, if I were really on food stamps and attended a friend's birthday party, I would surely take advantage of the free food. On the other hand, I only know this person (and everyone else in attendance) through theatre, and I probably wouldn't have made their acquaintance (or, subsequently, attended the party) if I were on food stamps, because I wouldn't be spending my time doing non-paying community theatre... I decided not to have anything, but it definitely affected my mood for the rest of the party, and I didn't stay long. The taste of my food when I finally got home was heavenly.

Day 4: Had an afternoon performance of A Chorus Line, after which I rushed home to eat because I then had a four-hour rehearsal that wouldn't be over until 10pm. The rest of my cast went out for pizza after the show (which has become a weekly ritual), and I stopped by for the last 15 minutes they were there (right before rehearsal started) so I could at least say hi and bye to the people I wouldn't see again for a week. I was kind of bummed to not be able to go out with everyone for the whole time, because I wanted to sit, eat, laugh, and socialize too... but of course I couldn't afford the pizza; I wouldn't accept any free food because the food stamp version of me wouldn't have that opportunity; and I knew I desperately needed a little food in my system between the 2-hour show and the 4-hour rehearsal. There were some free snacks at the theatre during rehearsal as well, but again, I couldn't accept anything.

Day 5: It was the first day without any social events, though the rest of my family did indulge in a festive Cinco de Mayo feast in the evening. Sigh.

Day 6: I declined the offer to meet a friend for coffee, knowing that we'd be able to reschedule a few days later. I also had to cancel a lunch date with a friend I usually meet every week, and because it was the only time she was available this week, it'll be a while before we're able to see each other again.

That's all for now -- you can all look forward to (or dread) the last installment of these blogs soon enough, which will probably summarize much of what has already been written :)

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posted by Kindra79 on May 7, 2008 at 10:15 AM

You know what is good to eat and filling?  Peanut butter and banana sandwiches :)  If you have honey drizzle a bit of that on there, mmm!  I like to toast my bread before making the sandwich.

You are right, the accepting food part is unrealistic, but made the challenge just that much more challenging.  I posted on a previous post that my mother does supply staples every couple of months and she tells me to just come shop her pantry if I ever need to.  I've done that a couple times, but only when I was really desperate.  One of my best friends provides food on a regular basis, but he is over every single evening - so he'll bring whatever is needed for me to add to dinner that I don't already have.  Then he just eats at my house all the time.  My other best friend will make a dish, bring it over, and I'll make something to go with it and we'll feed ourselves and our 3 kids potluck style.  When you lack money you become creative and also genuinely appreciate the gratitude of friends and family. :)

posted by twinkie on May 7, 2008 at 10:41 AM

the social thing is OH-sooooo-TRUE!

I remember when I was a single mom I always scoured the paper's entertainment section for FREE STUFF to do with my kids, other than the local parks, etc.

When the fair came, I volunteered to work my employment's booths because they gave me free tickets to get in, AND ride tickets. I'd take the kids to the BIG FREE section in the back the Kids Corner, I think it's called? And we spent our time doing the FREE activities then we'd get on one or two rides (however many tickets I had) then we went home. They had a blast and didn't know any better! LOL

posted by SamG on May 7, 2008 at 02:43 PM

Kindra, I had a peanut butter & banana sandwich for lunch today (The thought of more tuna just sounded gross to me)! It was actually the first time I've ever tried it. I didn't think of adding honey, though...

and Twinkie, when my mom was raising me by herself, she'd do stuff like that too. She says the same thing: "you didn't know any better!" ;D

posted by SamG on May 7, 2008 at 03:12 PM

Here is an update from www.one.org (Otherwise known as "ONE," The Campaign to Make Poverty History), who is currently running the Hunger Crisis Campaign:

"...Japanese Prime Minister Fukuda put the global hunger crisis on the agenda for the G8 summit, as part of a broad commitment to fighting global poverty. That is an important victory, because Japan is hosting this July’s G8 summit, where international commitments to fight poverty will be made.

In the United States, President Bush made an initial pledge of $200 million in American food assistance and followed that up last week with a call for Congress to approve $770 million in food assistance and investment in agricultural infrastructure in the developing world.

Getting the hunger crisis onto the G8’s poverty fighting agenda, and securing pledges of increased food assistance and investment in agricultural development adds up to a big win. It’s a testament to the power of grassroots action against even the toughest challenges global poverty presents.

Our next step is to secure commitments at the G8 Summit this summer and at other funding opportunities, for the fight against extreme poverty and global disease.

Thanks for adding your voice to the call for action to end the hunger crisis."

 

For more information about the grassroots campaign, recent victories, and the hunger petition, you can click HERE.

posted by an1ok1joe on May 7, 2008 at 06:09 PM

I ate peanut butter or almond butter and honey sandwhich for about the last 6months. that was while I worked at  G.E. in Tehachapi. I found nothing wrong with eating them everday. Peanut butter and  honey is very good and good for you. These days it's mostly salads. Due to my wonderful family curse of  high cholesterol. Thanks mom! Now it's salads with Phytosterols or plant sterols.

I'm glad Bush decided to help with the money. Now lets hope it doesn't go where most  food and money goes when helping  the poor in 3rd world countries. That would be for leverage from sub-machine  toting guerrillas with an agenda , IE Africa. Helping impoverished  countries is a key thing we here in this country should be doing. I just hope we see it through to the right people get it.  

posted by Chango on May 13, 2008 at 07:58 PM

I was on welfare with my wife and four kids while I finished BC and eventually UC Santa Barbara. I was able to complete my BA and my Master's while on welfare. A lot of abuse of the system?--YES, many people who really need it?--YES, A system that makes it hard to actually get off the gov't tit?--YES

Now, to social events, many times my wife and I did NOT go to events or even family functions, because we lacked the resources to contribute. Would've our family understood? probably, but regardless of our working toward something good (i.e. education), a sense of "Head of Household" pride forbade us from taking even more advantage of people's goodwill. I believe our kids were happy with where we were and where we are now as professionals. However, I know I wasn't and I only wanted to use the system for as long as it helped me achieve my goals.

posted by an1ok1joe on May 15, 2008 at 01:11 AM

But you contribute now and that's the best thing!


posted by anonymous on May 19, 2008 at 03:25 PM

SamG had to cancel meeting a friend for Coffee?  Why is that a bad consequence of this challenge?  You could have met with her and just not had coffee.  You had to cut out going to lunch once a week, every week?  That's not a bad thing.  If regular working people don't have coffee meetings every week and didn't eat out every week they would save a good deal of money that could be put to something more useful.  They'd also not be eating potentially unhealthy food at restaurants, and slowly damaging their insides with the coffee, which is always overly priced.

   I'm not poor or rich.  I make about 38K a year, but I don't eat out every week.  I maybe do it once a month.  I don't have coffee meetings with my friends.  If I want to enjoy my friend's company, then I invite them over and do things at home.  These things save money.  I'm not struggling or feasting; I am watching my money carefully and using it to the full advantage.  Little things like this add up down the road for when I need a home repair, a new piece of clothing, or even simple things like a new cd or DVD.

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