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What do you want to be remembered as?
Do you let the horrible and great things in life define you? Do they make you who you are?
I was reading about some person that went deaf in life. That they didn't let the deafness be something that was negative in their life. They didn't let it be the main characteristic that defined them. I have to say I have had some less then great things happen in my life. Deafness in 2001 was one of those things. But If I hadn't become deaf? Would I be a different person now? I would have to say YES. I don't know if I would have been as strong or positive in life. I try to seek positives in things and at times say Why would that have happened? I am at loss for a few things butttttt,,,,, I know it shaped me. It made me really listen better to my family and friends. Made some of them more understanding and with MORE PATIENCE:) BUT it doesn't define me. I have learned to adapt. I have my cell phone and I am a text kinda gal and email girl:) I do have my SPECIAL phone which can be so much fun at times. BUT not everyone knows how to use a VCO phone call. A VOICE CARRY OVER conversation is with me talking on the phone and then saying GA which tells the other person Go Ahead. Then that person talking and an operator types what is said. ALWAYS FUN:) You get no privacy but something it needs to be done. I always tell the operator god bless because I am sure they aren't paid enough. Last week I told the operator If I don't get you again soon,,HAPPY THANKSGIVING. She said I have had you before,, I hope to have you again. Now I find that HILARIOUS:) You see the code for the operator as some numbers and then a F or M at the end. For female or Male. Sometimes I wonder how the males handle GIRL calls:) Oh well,, tis the life for them I guess. BUT GOD BLESS THEM since I would be lost without them at times. There is two ways you can call into the 711 system. Computer,,or home regular TTY machine. If you call on the computer. You type and the operator has to say what you type:) now that's where my fun can happen. YA,,,, I have typed to a friend,," WHAT UP HO!" She almost died because my operator has to say it. If I were to say"I buried my neighbor in the backyard for doing the Macarena naked with the window open". THEY CANT TELL ON ME. NOPE. They are legally obligated NOT TO TELL. See how my funny trait can deal with that? Ya:) You know if I had to become deaf,,then so be it. It could have been worse. The tumors COULD have and would have killed me if I had never done a thing. BUT I don't think of myself as this "deaf " helpless girl. I think people who end up with NF2 are the some of the strongest people alive. I mean who wants never ending MRI's done every year? Who wants to live their whole life thinking of tumors could be happening all the time? Since I have it,I have donated my hearing nerves,,my tumors and my surgeries are taped. I even said they need a guinea pig look me up. How else do you let them learn? How else can I help my family? Its genetic. So I want to help my family down the line. Just don't let the negatives hurt you in life. Try to turn them into something that defines you in a postive light. I wont be that girl was know as OH THAT DEAF GIRL? I want to be known as the girl that was always smiling:) NO MATTER WHAT. 6 comments from 4 users
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posted by
an1ok1joe
on Nov 12, 2007 at 11:28 PM
posted by
woofwoof
on Nov 12, 2007 at 11:32 PM
The ability to overcome (or not) is what defines you. . I like those two statements. posted by
Kindra79
on Nov 13, 2007 at 10:24 AM
:) Hahaha, "what up ho"! That reminded me of a Spoonie Luv prank call from Crank Yankers ... he calls a floral shop and is telling the lady things to write down on the card, you hear her kind of saying them to herself and mumbling "uh-huh", "okay" as she writes stuff like "I love you more than you know, but you did me wrong. Give one dude a BJ shame on you, give two dudes a BJ shame on me. If you think I can't get to you, you're wrong. You ain't nothing but a stupid ho. Love your Teddy Bear", then she's like "No, no, we can't put that, how about, I'm sorry ... I love you" And back to subject ... You are awesome, and are so incredibly right about it's how we choose to live with what is thrown with us, rather than have what is thrown at us choosing how we live.
posted by
woofwoof
on Nov 13, 2007 at 10:31 AM
You know I think the bad things that happen in life shape us in a way. Shows us how to survive and be stronger. IT WILL EITHER BREAK YOU OR MAKE YOU. Its your choice to chose which path to take. posted by
twinkie
on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:27 PM
posted by
woofwoof
on Nov 13, 2007 at 04:35 PM
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