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        <title>My Life as a Blog - Kindra79&apos;s Blog - Bakotopia</title>
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                <title>Help! I need movers!</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/31521</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m moving - yes, I&#039;m abandoning the charm and haunts of Oleander for the lure of a pool and spa in a large quiet house on a cul-de-sac in the North East.&amp;nbsp;I&#039;m still Oleander&#039;s bitch ... I&#039;m not selling my house, she won&#039;t let me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is what I need, I&#039;m willing to pay, and if I can&#039;t find someone on here then I&#039;ll just call a moving company (but I&#039;d love for someone here to help me out for a bit less, any money saved is a blessing!&amp;nbsp; I&#039;m also an excellent cook and would be happy to make you a dinner or two or three!) ...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don&#039;t have very&amp;nbsp; much furniture that needs to be moved, but there are a few cumbersome pieces.&amp;nbsp; Specifically a large dresser with glass doors and an armoir with glass doors.&amp;nbsp; So I&#039;m thinking those special moving straps are the best bet and 2 big guys would do the trick.&amp;nbsp; The bedroom set would need to be moved up a set of stairs in my new home.&amp;nbsp; The rest of the furniture is pretty small and basic.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m looking to do this the last weekend of August or the weekend before that.&amp;nbsp; I also do not have&amp;nbsp;a truck - but if need be I can rent a U-haul, or maybe my sister will let me borrow her trailer and truck.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ll love you forever!&amp;nbsp; :)&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     

                
                
                
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                <title>Charity Work</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/29060</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;The past few years I&#039;ve begun actively recycling cans, glass, and bottles ... figured I could do something Green and make a little cash, right?&amp;nbsp; This and other apparent behaviors I display has earned me the code name &amp;quot;The Bohemian&amp;quot; by my father.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That&#039;s not what this blog is about though ... it&#039;s about my several years of charity work.&amp;nbsp; You know, collecting cans, stashing them in a trashcan until it&#039;s full, then letting some stranger into my yard in the middle of the night while I&#039;m sleeping to take them away and make themselves a little bit of money.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I feel so violated.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The first time it was like, okay whatever - guess someone needs the money more than I do, and besides - my father had dumped the bags&amp;nbsp;of cans I&#039;d saved into the alley because he said they made my backyard look like a dump, yeah, he&#039;s a bit anal and doesn&#039;t come over anymore due to the fact I have 3 cans for recycling on top of a green waste and regular trash can.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Last night I felt a little angry, I&#039;d been robbed!&amp;nbsp; Robbed of my aluminum cans!&amp;nbsp; What has the world come to?!&amp;nbsp; Are can collectors so lazy now they just scope out backyards for people who recycle and then wait to collect when they see the can is nearly full?&amp;nbsp; I wanted that can money!&amp;nbsp; That was my can money!&amp;nbsp; They also made off with my trashcan lid!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Then again, I guess someone needed it more than I did.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
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                <title>Drinko De Mayo!</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/26163</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Seconds, just seconds ago I realized how freakin dense I am.&amp;nbsp; Or maybe blonde?&amp;nbsp; No, I&#039;ll go with dense ... but I&#039;ll get back to that in a moment.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you weren&#039;t at Fishlips last night, you missed out!&amp;nbsp; I reserved a table for 10, my best friend, a few of her friends, my sister, and some Couchsurfers joined me.&amp;nbsp; Or maybe it was just that much better after I&#039;d had about as much beer as half my weight ... Oh the wonderful ways to drown out your single girl sorrows.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Which leads me back to being dense.&amp;nbsp; So once again I&#039;ve proven my theory that I have awful luck in the dating department.&amp;nbsp; There was a guy I enjoyed spending time with, but he&#039;s a busy dude, so I figured the lack of hanging out was due to that.&amp;nbsp; I&#039;ve bumped into him a couple times and each time I&#039;m told how hot I am.&amp;nbsp; Um, thank you ... but why don&#039;t we hang out?&amp;nbsp; Hello?!&amp;nbsp; Earth to Kindra!&amp;nbsp; He has a freakin girlfriend now!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why can&#039;t guys just tell you these things?&amp;nbsp; Instead of making excuses just give it to me straight, &amp;quot;Yeah, so I met this girl and we&#039;ve become more serious&amp;quot; ... it&#039;s that easy.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;My feelings won&#039;t be hurt - what hurts is having my ego&amp;nbsp;bruised when I figure out what&#039;s going on myself and feel like a complete dumbass for continuing to hit on the dude.&amp;nbsp; Just let me know so I can retreat back to friend mode.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Arrgh!&amp;nbsp; Men!&amp;nbsp; Haha!&amp;nbsp; Gotta love &#039;em ;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Or not.&amp;nbsp; ;P&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     

                
                
                
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                <title>Attention photographers, dj&#039;s, caterers, etc!  I want you!</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/24876</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Some of you know that I am an ordained minister and have the honor and privilege of officiating wedding ceremonies ... anyway ... I&#039;m trying to build a portfolio of different vendors for brides (and grooms) that ask if I recommend anyone.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Please contact me if you are interested in some free word of mouth advertisement: Reverend.Kindra(at)gmail.com.&amp;nbsp; All I ask in return is that you recommend me if you are asked if you know of an available minister.&lt;/p&gt;
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                <title>HELP! Girl Scout Troop needs to sell remaining cookies!</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/22841</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;&lt;font size=&quot;2&quot;&gt;Long story short, we were given a crummy boothing location that was double booked, so we were put into an uncomfortable situation of feeling as if we had to compete with another troop. Girl Scouting is not a competition, it&#039;s a sisterhood. &lt;br /&gt;
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We have 175 boxes of cookies left! They need to be sold by this Friday!&lt;br /&gt;
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Remember you can only get your favorite Girl Scout Cookies once a year! &lt;br /&gt;
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Please call Kindra at (661) 900-0695 if you&#039;d like to purchase some yummy Girl Scout Cookies!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     

                
                
                
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                <title>My public service announcement for the day:</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/22769</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;As Ben Franklin said:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;In wine there is wisdom,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;in beer there is freedom,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;in water there is bacteria.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;In a number of carefully controlled trials, scientists have demonstrated&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold; color: purple&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;that if we drink 1 liter of water each day, at the end of the year we would have absorbed more than 1 kilo of Escherichia coli, (E. coli) - bacteria&amp;nbsp; found in feces. In other words, we are consuming 1 kilo of poop.&amp;nbsp; However, we do NOT run that risk when drinking wine and beer (or tequila, rum,&amp;nbsp;whiskey, vodka, or o ther liquor) because alcohol has to go through a purification process of boiling, filtering and/or fermenting.

&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;Remember:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;Water = Poop,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;Wine = Health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;Therefore, it&#039;s better to drink wine and talk stupid,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small&quot;&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;than to drink water and be full of shit.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold; color: purple&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;#800080&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: purple&quot;&gt;(There is no need to thank me for this valuable information...I&#039;m doing it as a public service).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     

                
                
                
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                <title>Fn key!</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/21673</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;I&#039;d like to thank my Sony Vaio for the current smile on my face.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I have an Fn key (seriously, &amp;quot;Fn&amp;quot; it&#039;s right below my enter key) that keeps falling off.&amp;nbsp; I have to put it back on and push it several times to stick.&amp;nbsp; Today I received an error message that had me laughing so hard I had to copy the screen and share it with everyone.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     

                
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                <title>Are you freakin kidding me?!</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/21632</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;To sum it up, my morning hasn&#039;t gone so smoothly.&amp;nbsp; I really need to get a cup of coffee before I freak out.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m trying to cancel a trial advertising service that totally sucked, and return a product that was mailed to me used.&amp;nbsp; Neither company&#039;s customer rep&amp;nbsp;would work with me&amp;nbsp;so I&#039;m waiting for supervisor&#039;s supervisors to call me back.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If all else fails I live with an attorney and I&#039;m sure she wouldn&#039;t mind writing a few letters on my behalf.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Now ... the kicker of it all ... I figure, okay, I&#039;ll go to PostSecret.com, read some secrets, somehow they make me feel better.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Guess what?&amp;nbsp; My office has blocked it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Are you freakin kidding me?!&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     

                
                
                
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                <title>Single?  There are perks!</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/21401</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Tonight &lt;strong&gt;The Garden Spot Restaurant, &lt;/strong&gt;3320 Truxtun Ave., is offering a free dinner of chicken, salad, pasta, muffins, bread and dessert bars to singles Thursday night. Beer and wine will be sold. It&#039;s from 6 to 9 p.m. and you need reservations. Call 323-3236.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     

                
                
                
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                <title>Happy Valentine&#039;s Day!</title>
                <link>http://www.bakotopia.com/home/Blog/Kindra79/21376</link>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;I could be jaded, I could be cynical, I could be down right pouty - but guess what?&amp;nbsp; I like Valentine&#039;s Day.&amp;nbsp; Regardless of my mood or my dating situation I have never once viewed this holiday as it &amp;quot;sucking&amp;quot;.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Personally I think that people should show love to others each and every day of the year.&amp;nbsp; They should surprise each other randomly with little gifts of appreciation, love, and gratitude year round!&amp;nbsp; Unfortunately in this day and age we become busy, or comfortable (that folks is a four letter word in many relationships) and work into a mold where we forget to do these things, thinking to ourselves that the people we love in our lives already know, and we take this for granted.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So maybe they do know, but sometimes it&#039;s just nice to hear - I love you, I appreciate you, I&#039;m grateful to have you in my life.&amp;nbsp; Valentine&#039;s Day, corporate holiday or not, is just one of those stupid little gentle reminders for us to say those things when we&#039;ve forgotten to say them the rest of the year.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kudos to those who do say these things on a regular basis!&amp;nbsp; I know I sure try to let my friends and family know regularly that I love and appreciate them.&amp;nbsp; I do have to admit that I feel a twinge of jealousy and if another bouquet of roses shows up for the same person in my office again I think I&#039;m going to throw up.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     

                
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