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I am a Bakotopian (HereInBakersfield) by way of the military & a marriage, and lust for riding motocross & dirt-bikes. I am in the process divorcing & will be single soon!. It is no fun. I am primarily interested in the needs of our son and retaining 50/50 % custody as it has been since our separation. It is in his best interest to have his mother and father raise him.

My ideal match would be a faithfull woman who is either White or Latino. She would like being around dirt bikes & maybe even ride too. I have 3 dirt bikes.  She would like camping, exploring, adventures & travel. She would want to get married and have children. She would be open and honest about everything & last but not least would consider working in an Internet based business that we would own together...:)

I chose California over Italy as my personal choice to perform my military duty as the top student in my military class. Top students pick their own orders. Although I would have loved Italy, especially being 1/2 Italian,  I wanted to be a Californian and I did it. I paid a heavy price for my country and now am a 100% disabled US veteran. I have Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy among other disabilities. RSD affects every minute of my life. In plain words:  it sucks dust...it takes away your happiness and replaces it with pain. Smiles are so important to me. I do not have enough friends right now.

I love to play the drums and have been playing since I was 5. I am thinking about offering drum lessons. I took lessons from a Jazz musician named Sal Carini, and also from a workshop in New York City where famous drummers gave group lessons and instruction.I played in lots of New Jersey & Manhattan bands and clubs before a kidnapping incident ruined my musical career. I was playing for the New Seeds at that time. I went through the psychological trauma by myself and did not always make the best decisions...but that is a story in itself. I need a band before I lose my mind...

     Smiles are awesome, Hugs are better, and friends are best. I need more good friends, people who want loyalty and support from friendships. I need more friends as anyone does, but I am willing to admit it. So I am looking for some cool people to enhance my life as I would enhance theirs too.

I am a graduate of University of Phoenix with a BS in eBusiness. I will be attending Bakersfield College for the fall semester & looking forward to getting a Masters Degree or possible Teaching credentials.

I own a small web development, hosting & Internet Marketing company. I am currently building a new company but the costs have delayed its start-up. I am always looking for talent & computer skills of all kinds.

 I like motocross riding, trail riding, desert riding, and BMX. Whenever I go riding I am in intense pain, but I have a choice to either live my life in pain and accept it or let the pain stop my life. I want to join District 37 and other dirt-bike & MX clubs as soon as I can when our finances permit.  I also need a riding buddy, and someone to help me get back in shape for it. I want to be involved with the Friends of Kern Open Space to keep our riding areas open. I was in the "supposedly" last-ever Mammoth Mountain Motocross, in the intermediate class #47 where I got stomped and ate it on a right hand turn cause I hit a rut and could not push my right arm out because of the pain and it's loss of muscle.

I need some new clients, even small website or blogs that want be self-hosted. I can host images for MySpace accounts too. Call me at 661.833.8900 and tell me you saw me in Bakotopia for a 5% discount.

If your a friend or interested in becoming one, please leave me a message.

I enjoy finding out new places, people and faces. I love all kinds of music and may even seek joining a band again.

User Name:jdamiano
Real Name:Joseph Damiano
Gender:male
Member Since:February 10, 2006
Last Signed In:July 24, 2008
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