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Diary of a Stalker PRIMAL INFUSION: Bellydance Festival and Workshops at the Nile Martin Luther King Day Butterfly Kisses SILENCE Burn The Witch He Who Casts The First Stone Let's Burn The Witch The Logic of a 9 Year Old Celebration Time! Come on! Want To Join Me? August 06 September 06 October 06 November 06 December 06 January 07 February 07 March 07 April 07 May 07 June 07 July 07 August 07 September 07 October 07 November 07 December 07 January 08 February 08 March 08 April 08 May 08 June 08 July 08 August 08 September 08 October 08 November 08 December 08 January 09 February 09 March 09 April 09 May 09 June 09 July 09 August 09 September 09 October 09 November 09 December 09 January 10 February 10
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Diary of a Stalker by Electa Rome Parks follows the story of a succesful and very handsome author named Xavier who after having a one night stand with one of his groupies named Pilar realizes what a HUGE mistake it was. She immediatley starts sending him emails depicting them as if they are in a relationship which annoy the hell out of him because I mean.. HELLO! It was a one night stand while he was out on his book signing tour. It meant NOTHING to him. Nothing... except the sex ah-MAZE-ing. He can't stop thinking about her especially when he's in bed with his sweet, young, innocent, vanilla fiancee. See, Pilar was up for anything and everything in the bedroom. Not just that, but she was SMOKIN' HAWT! Which is why Xavier couldn't resist saying no to her everytime he happened to "coincidentally" run into her. Little did he know it was NO coincidence. She was dillusionally in love with him and it was her mission in life to study everything about him so she could please him in every single aspect of his life, even if it meant moving from Atlanta to his home state, Texas, breaking into his house while he was gone and looking through his cabinets, drawers and computer. Of course after a certain amount of events that transpire which cause havoc in his life he realizes exactly how psychotic and delusional she is and KNOWS she's bad news and that he should get rid of her psychotic ass somehow. Yet he keeps going back. He strings her along because knowing that she was willing to do ANYTHING for him made him feel powerful. BIG MISTAKE! The more he tries to get rid of her, the more desperate Pilar gets to show jim just how perfect they are together. When she finally realized he was never gonna fall in love with her she took revenge. She turned his world upside down and made him pay. (insert diabolical laugh here) Good book. Easy read. I recommend it for fun, light reading. You can buy Diary of a Stalker at Russo's Book Store online OR by driving down to the Marketplace. Support your locally owned businesses. Russo's Bookstore at the Marketplace Store Hours M-Th: 10 a.m. - 8 p.m. 9000 Ming Avenue #I-4 (661) 665-4686 telephone russosbooks@bak.rr.com
Are you tired of the typical, boring exercise regime? Big Mickey asked me a few years ago, "If Martin Luther King didn't do what he did would you sell me when I was born?"
" why would I do that?" I answered.
"Because brown people weren't supposed to talk to peach people. And you're brown and I'm peach." he replied.
So this past Martin Luther King day I couldn't helpt but think of that conversation over and over and over. Obviously he misunderstood what the teacher was trying to explain to him about the importance of Mr. King's work.
In his mind, he was grateful of Mr. King because if it wasn't for him I woulda had to sell him or give him up for adoption to a lovely peach colored family.
Of course with that train of thought, I also wouldn't have been allowed to marry my handsome peach colored husband, because I'm a brown colored person.
We have definitely come a LONG way! Thanks to courageous people like Martin Luther King who did not take "no you can't" for an answer.
Although I have to tell yah... if Mr. King still hadn't "done what he did" I would NOT sell my lovely peach colored boy. I mean just LOOK AT THIS FACE??? Is this the face of a kid you would sell or put up for adoption? I THINK NOT!
![]() I'm sure I've mentioned it before. When my best friend Dee and I were about 25 we took off on a road trip to nowhere one year ended up in Santa Cruz. After we did the whole beach and boardwalk thing we decided, HEY YOU KNOW WHAT WOULD BE A GREAT IDEA? LET'S GET A TATTOO. We ended up with matching butterfly tattoos. Of course years and years later our little butterflies had withered and died. Mine looked like a moth. Hers just looked lonely and tired. She did it first. She went and had the tattoo redone, adding a flower and a heart to it. Mine was harder to figure out. I didn't want to ADD to it... I just wanted it to look like a butterfly again. Well, during my last Vegas trip, I did it! I went into Hunington's at The Palms (where we were staying) and "Roach"did it up! The first picture is a picture of the outline. You can see where my old "moth" is being covered up.
I'm going back in May to have an added layer of color to complete the full effect. Silence is golden sometimes. Sometimes it's hell. Lately for me it's HELL. Of course the silence I'm talking about is my blogging and my blog friends. First, my home computer crashed. Then we bought a new one. Then the mouse quit working. Then we bought a new one. Then the keyboard fell and broke. Then we bought a new one. But it wasn'st compatible with our system. (yeah yeah I KNOW. Don't ask) So then we bought a new one. That one didn't work either. (don't judge me. I never claimed to be very smart or technology/computer savvy) Finally we got it right and so here I am. I feel really bad because I had a whole lineup of interviews to do for the Burn the Witch Show but since I had NO computer I couldn't finish them up. Sorry, girls. The good news is, I have all your information saved and I still plan on doing something with it. So if you have any other shows coming up let me know and I'll write a promotional article for you! Thank goodness for my iPhone because at least then I was able to still communicate a little bit through emails and social networks otherwise I might have been driven to drinking. Oh wait, I can drive myself there for no good reason because that's what I do. SEE:
One thing you have to understand about artists is that they typically are regular people like you and me. In fact, if you were to see them out and about you wouldn’t even realize what passion and creativity lies within them. Having said that, let’s start the introductions with 40 year old Helen Acosta who teaches in the Communication Department at Bakersfield College. Regular job, right? However let’s add a few more things to her resume. When she’s not busy with her “day job” her and her husband produce and direct plays. As if that’s not enough, she also makes time for her art. Helen has been working with a new media each year for the past three years and is still struggling to find her own style. She began with computer graphic art then moved to watercolors and recently started working with canvas. Even though she hasn’t quite found her “style” it’s definitely not something she’s discouraged about. In fact, when asked what the best compliment she’s ever received Helen commented, “I like it when people tell me my work is unique. I had a friend tell me that he saw one of my pieces, didn’t know it was mine but, since it was so different from anything else in the show it must have been mine. He got a little closer and, sure enough, the tag said it was.”
Helen says about her favorite colors to work with,"I love deep, rich color: blues and greens together, oranges and purples, bright pink and red tones together. But I also love to work tone-on-tone. Lately I've enjoyed working with multicolored metal leaf and finding ways to bring the colors of the leaf into my work." ——————— ——————— ——————— ——————— ——————— —–
Former English teacher Susan Reep didn’t have it easy growing up with a former painting professor as a father. So when he told her that her art was REALLY good she didn’t only consider it a compliment, but a challenge. Susan states, “I have a lot of ground to make up, having started so late with no formal training.” See, Susan doesn’t want to just be remembered as the daughter who’s father’s paintings hang in museums everywhere, including the Smithsonian. Or the daughter of the man who’sbeen featured in a video about WWII artists. She wants to be known for her own art. When asked if there was a specific one she’d like to be known for she said, “So far, a collage named Blue Moon, which is hanging in my show at the Metro Gallery, is the work that springs to mind. It represents so much personal about me. It also came together quickly and just as I had envisioned, and that doesn’t often happen. The art takes on it’s own life sometimes but this one behaved. To me, it’s a balance of serenity and solitude, adventurousness and openness, and the unexpected which is pretty much my personality. At least according to me. Others may have a different opinion.”
Susan lives by what Chinese artist Liu Chun-Hau says when he explains feelings and reactions to art work, “Artistic creation is not mere decoration. The artist has to convey his inspiration to others while allowing them freedom of interpretation.” ——————— ——————— ——————— —- When Micky Piercy was working on her art piece titled, “The Crucifixion of Mother Earth” she never realized how controversial it was going to become. But when asked which art work she’d like to be known for (and why) it’s the first piece that came to mind. “It’s my latest piece for the local all female show Burn the Witch IV, and one that caused a slight controversy here in Bakersfield for some individuals who thought it offensive. These persons decided to take it down from display and put it in the bathroom causing some damage to the piece in the process. Even still I took the piece home, repaired it and had it back in time for the press preview and the show. I wanted those other artist to know that even though we may not always be understood we can still be the better person,” she explains.
Micky says, "If you want to find something to do think outside the box and make it happen for you. There's loads to do if you use your imagination and stop waiting for something exciting to happen." -------------------------- *This is the second blog post in the Burn The Witch series. Click HERE for the first post: Let's Burn The Witch What is Burn The Witch: Burn The Witch is an annual all-female artist show held in Bakersfield, Ca. Founded by local artist, Jen Raven, this is the show’s 4th year. Originally held at The Empty Space theatre & gallery on Oak Street. A Little History about MY involvement with Burn The Witch: One year I decided to help promote what used to be a very NEW, very unknown, very underground arts show called Burn The Witch through my blog. I started this thing called a “Twinkielicious Field Trip.” Basically, I’d use my blog to invite other bloggers/readers to join me at certain art shows. I’d bribe them with goody bags that Matt from Bakotopia.com and Bakotopia Magazine would hook me up with. A bunch of T-shirts, CD’s and other bakotopia.com booty.
A Twinkielicious Field Trip to a Bakersfield production of Hair I always got a good response and had a lot of fun. We were a fun group! I’d buy witches hats and we’d wear them to the show even though the show really had nothing to do WITH witches.
A Twinkielicious Field Trip to Burn The Witch It was more of a metaphor about how strong independent women have been treated in the past and so it was their way to poke fun at that. At least that’s what it used to be. This year it meant way more than that. This year a group of people that were offended by the name and some of the art decided to Burn. THE. Witch. Or at least vandalize it. CLICK HERE TO READ ABOUT HOW THE BURN THE WITCH ART SHOW WAS VANDALIZED BEFORE THE OPENING. Regardless, the show must go on right? And in true strong women form, they rallied it up and got past it and they got on with their show. The next few blogs are going to be featuring these strong women and hopefully get you a little insight about them and then maybe? Just maybe… you’ll want to go check out the HOTTEST SHOW IN BAKERSFIELD right now! It's no longer unkown.. but it's definitely still "underground art" as in it's different than anything you've ever seen before. This year’s celebration of female creativity will be held at “Metro Special Events at Westchester” 2801 F Street, Bakersfield.
-Opening Reception (YOU MISSED IT): October 17 from three to seven pm; five dollars at the door: Food, wine, live entertainment! click here to read the SECOND article in the Burn the Witch Series: Burn The Witch: He Who Casts The First Stone
This is an art piece that I bought at last year's Burn The Witch
Over dinner: Big Mickey: “Mom? I been thinking a lot about this. And I think you really should take the t.v. out of our room.” (insert very surprised look here… ) ever since they were wittle itty bitty babies they’ve ALWAYS had a TV in their room. In fact, they wouldn’t go to sleep without it at least on with no volume in the background. Sort of a makeshift nightlight, if you will. Oh sure, I’d get up and turn it off in the middle of the night but then ONE of them would wake up and turn it back on. ONE of them was scared of the dark. This ONE is now telling me he wants the TV out of his room. This is a very interesting turn of events. Could it be that he’s finally outgrown his fear? Could it be that my baby is growing up? Coudl it be that he’s maturing and no longer scared of silly things like the boogyman? ME: “Why?”(insert a very interested-in-your-conversation look here) Big Mickey: “Because Annequin always wants to put it on HIS shows. And I would rather just have it OFF than to watch his shows. So I’ve thought about it a lot and decided the best compromise is to take it out of the room.” ME:* No longer impressed and now somewhat cynical. “Uh, so in other words. Take the TV out. You win?” Big Mickey: “EXACTLY!”
I think further discussion needs to go into this decision There’s something to be said about goals. I don’t ever really make any and the ones I do make I more than likely am NOT gonna reach or follow up on. That’s just the way I am. In fact, I find that I end up sabotaging myself by making goals. For example when I set a goal of losing weight? I end up eating 20 pounds of Twinkies and Zingers instead. So it was no surprise when this year’s (insert the name of the small mountain town near where I live here) 5K Run came and I hadn’t prepared for it. See my friend Dee and Goocher and I usually run this 5K It’s about a four year tradition. OK hang on. I guess I should correct myself. It’s tradition to PLAN to run it every year. It’s tradition to PLAN on training for it every year. It’s tradition to SWEAR that nothing is gonna keep us from WINNING it next year. It’s a tradition to promise each other to run at least three times a week together alternating by me going to Dee’s town and running there, then going to Goocher’s town and running there, then they coming to MY town and running here. However.. sometimes I can’t make it because my boys have a morning football game. Or Goocher can’t make it because of whatever reason she has at the time. In fact, Dee usually is the one that’s pretty consistent about it. So anyways, come another year. The phone calls start. “Have you registered for the 5K yet?” “DAMN! Is it that time already? I haven’t really trained for it or exercised at all. I’m gonna DIE!” Well in the end Goocher couldn’t make it this year. But Dee and I registered.
Dee and her hot bod! I guess I could have this body too if I ran 5 miles a day like her!
There's a hot body hiding underneath all that. I just KNOW IT! And I talked my Lil Sis into registering too.
My lil sis holding up an energy drink that was in our goody bag. It was apple flavored and it was YUMMY Then she also signed my little nephew up.
My nephew. I just wuvz him. Lil SIS: “I’m bringing a bottle of Cuvee to celebrate afterwards if we both survive!” ME: “Hell yah! I’m up for the champagne cause! Bring it!” The race usually goes a little something like this for me: The organizer of the race says, “Alright everybody! Just a few warnings. You will be running on rough terrain so watch out for potholes, cow pies, rocks, and rattle snakes. OK? On your marks, get set… GO” And ummm yeah, he’s not kidding. Start off strong… feel good.. hey I think I can do this! I’m gonna be just fine! After the ¼ mile marker… oh shit.. is that a.. .a HILL? Is that a hill? Holy shit. YUP that’s a hill. I forgot about the hills. …. Oh gawd Lord help me. *trip over a rock… but I don’t fall. Recover… keep running. A few more hills later .. dear gawd….. when is the mile marker coming up! I’m gonna DIE. Looks down (we’re on rough terrain, hills, over looking a creek) FEEL DIZZY. Holy shit.. I’m gonna pass out and roll down this damned hill. Will anybody see me? Will anybody realize that I just DIED and didn’t finish the race? I can picture my body rolling and tumbling and hitting the rocks all the way down. I attempt to take a deep breath to snap out of it. OUCH. Bad idea. Deep breaths hurt very badly at this point. I’m too busy concentrating on breathing and well… staying ALIVE that I hardly noticed the few cow pies I ran over. Thank goodness they are dry already so nothing gets stuck to my shoes. An older gentleman passes me up. I hate him. I speed up to catch up to him. Then I start walking. He walks too. Then he speeds up again. Show off! I let him have his glory. Not because I am out of breath, cramping and about to pass out or anything. I just figure I’ll be nice and let him think he’s actually beating out a very healthy and fit 37 year old woman. It’s good for his ego. I can sense he needs an ego boost and I’m happy to oblige. Still jogging but at a very slow pace. Start admiring the scenery. Trees everywhere…I hear the water from the creek that runs right below the hill I’m running. Uh.. wait.. is that BEAR POOP? WTF??? Pick up my pace but still can’t catch up to the old man. Oh well. Finally get to the marker that says we’re halfway done. The rest of the course is downhill so it makes it easier because you don’t really put any effort towards running. You just move your legs and swing your arms and pray to God you don’t roll down the hill. I only stop to walk a few times. When I get to the ¼ mark I look and see the old man in front of me. A little girl is in front of him. Oh WHATTAAAA??? I’m not gonna get beat by an old man and a little girl. HELL-TO-THE-NO! I speed up and sprint as fast as I can. Panting… lungs a-blazing like a ten alarm fire, knees a-jiggling like jello, feet a-thumping like BOSE speakers on the pavement. I pass the old man. The little girl stops, looks back for gramma and granpa. I utter in between breaths, “Go girl, go! Don’t worry about them right now. They are just fine. You’re almost there! Sprint as fast as you can to the finish line and get your time in. You can do it!” She speeds up and BEATS me. Ungrateful back stabbing brat! I come in right after her and look out for my friends. We made it! We did it! We really did it! We ran and survived! Dee says, “You came in 9th in our age group.” I laugh because I know there are only 10 racers in my category. I tell her in between breaths, “I’m gonna post that on Facebook. hahahahahaa. I just won’t tell them there were only ten people. hahah that’s funny shit!” So as soon as I can breath without medical assistance I post: “I got 9th place, bitches!” responses: D: Out of ten? ME: (joking) Yes! I beat out the 80 yr old with emphysema. Mrs. Ess:
Norma, our whole family is here at soccer laughing at this post, too funny.
ME: Mrs. Ess I wasn’t kidding! It was my only goal this year! He beat me last year and I wanted to show him who was boss this time around!
G.I. Joe: Norma I heard the only reason the 80yr old lost was because his feet got tangled up in his oxygen tubing, and he took a nasty spill just shy of the finish line. But hey you’re right a win is a win.
ME: Don’t take my glory, Joe!! It takes talent to trip an old person, make it look like an accident and keep on running!
D: Was this the pogo stick division?
hahahahaah I LOVE my friends. They crack me up!
But back to me: I came in 32nd over all out of 39, I think? 9th place in my age group (out of 10) my time was 38:26:21
And while I realize that’s nothing to brag about? I am posting my results for two reasons. 1. This year my goal was just to survive this thing. But my goal for next year is to actually RUN the whole race therefore maybe even beating my time. WHAT?? NO I’m serious. Don’t look at me like that! I really AM this year. I swear! *cough *cough* 2. but for now I’m just proud of myself that I didn’t chicken out and hide in the restroom like I seriously considered doing right before the race when I started hyperventilating and panicking that I would not be able to finish it and I’d have to be carried down by the fire department that is on stand by for morons like me that decide to run a race even though we haven’t done one ounce of exercise for over two years. Anyways, goals or no goals I can at least say I ran it this year. And maybe my sister and I have a new sisterly tradition. I should have invited her before! Because… I mean helloooo! The best part of this whole day? Celebrating with her over a few glasses… errr… ok ok bottles of champagne. (Why hadn’t I ever thought of that before?)
Yummy Cuvee is my favorite but this bottle of Vueve Clicquot Brut was off the hizzy! OK ..so back to creating and achieving goals. Start exercising. Stay fit. Operation Donut back into effect full force! I want to be able to say that I beat my time from this year AND that I RAN THE WHOLE THING. And sure, I won’t get first place or anything but I will at least beat out my time! Also, hopefully I’ll lose a few more pounds. *Oh great… Goal setting is always a most definite way to sabotage myself. I can already feel it. Can somebody pass me a Twinkie please? Thanks! click here to read my diet blogs: Heritage of America Educational & Cultural Foundation
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Book, America Libre Committee, schedules Southern California appearances for author of award winning and controversial novel LOS ANGELES, CA — The America Libre Committee, headed by Dr. Jess Nieto,
Executive Director of the Heritage of America Educational & Cultural Foundation, has arranged a number of community appearances for Raul Ramos y Sanchez, author of the novel AMERICA LIBRE (ISBN 978-0446507752) released by Grand Central Publishing July 29, 2009. Three bookstore events are also scheduled, and several university and community presentations are scheduled.
The controversial novel is set in a near-future where once-peaceful immigration rallies explode into riots against the violence of self-appointed border patrols and urban vigilantes. As the violence escalates, the U.S. Southwest is embroiled in a Latino war of liberation. Amid the chaos in his L.A. barrio, decorated Afghan vet Manolo Suarez finds himself romantically drawn to a Latina radical activist, threatening his marriage, his family—and his loyalty to his country.
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